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The community says massage first, then bathe (oil shouldn't be left on), and that you can continue massage well into toddlerhood - it's beneficial, with timing and duration a personal choice the baby may eventually resist.
Parents wonder if they're doing the routine in the right order and whether they should stop massaging as the baby grows or are somehow harming them by continuing. The community reassures on both - massage before the bath since oil shouldn't be left on, and massage is beneficial and safe to continue for a year or more, with the baby's own growing resistance naturally guiding when to ease off.
Here's what moms in our community shared based on their own experience.
Massage first, then bath - you shouldn't leave oil on the body or hair, so massage should always be followed by a bath or sponge bath.
Massage is beneficial and won't harm even if continued longer. Some massaged religiously until 4 months, then occasionally; many continue to 1-2 years.
After about 6 months many babies start resisting and pull your hand away, so it becomes more occasional. One mom still massages at 15 months, at least the legs, since walking is new and tiring - night massage is more important then.
It's your choice - massage women traditionally massage babies for a year or more, and it's always good for the baby.
The information shared on this page comes from real experiences of mothers in our community. While we strive to provide helpful insights, this content is for informational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. Always consult with your pediatrician, healthcare provider, or other qualified medical professional for any questions regarding your child's health or development.
Last reviewed: June 17, 2026
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