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Moms strongly advise against nose massaging - it can't change the genetically-determined nose shape and risks harming the delicate, still-forming cartilage; the community suggests firmly declining, citing the doctor.
⚠️ Caution:Avoid pressing or massaging the baby's nose - the cartilage is delicate and forming. There's no benefit and a real risk of harm.
Parents feel pressured by in-laws to massage the baby's nose for cosmetic shaping and worry both about offending elders and about harming their baby. The community is clear and reassuring - nose shape is genetic and can't be massaged into a new form, while the delicate forming cartilage can actually be damaged - so it's worth firmly declining, and blaming the doctor is a useful way to do so.
Here's what moms in our community shared based on their own experience.
Please don't do it - some adults have nose cartilage issues attributed to this practice in childhood.
The shape of the nose is genetic - no amount of massage will change it, and the baby is too delicate. The cartilage is still forming and one wrong move can cause problems.
Take a stand and say the doctor has said no if relatives persist. Sometimes just agreeing verbally while doing what you think is right helps avoid conflict.
The information shared on this page comes from real experiences of mothers in our community. While we strive to provide helpful insights, this content is for informational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. Always consult with your pediatrician, healthcare provider, or other qualified medical professional for any questions regarding your child's health or development.
Last reviewed: June 17, 2026
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