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Timing is a personal and cultural choice with no medical urgency - many moms shaved between 3 months and a year using an electric trimmer once the scalp had hardened, and recommend checking with your doctor.
⚠️ Caution:The fontanelle (soft spot) can take up to two years to close, so favor a gentle electric trimmer and check with your pediatrician about the right time for your baby.
Parents feel torn between family and priestly traditions and their own comfort, and worry about the delicate soft spot when a blade is near the head. The community relieves the pressure by emphasizing this is entirely a personal choice with no medical deadline - many shaved anywhere from a few months to a year using a safe electric trimmer once the scalp firmed up, and a quick doctor check settles the timing.
Here's what moms in our community shared based on their own experience.
It's a completely personal choice with no right or wrong - do it when you and your husband are comfortable. Many did it at 5-7 months; some symbolically cut just a strand at a temple instead of the whole head.
Use an electric trimmer rather than traditional sharp instruments - it's safer and less traumatic for the baby. Several moms removed hair at 5-7 months at the zero setting.
Doctors gave go-ahead at varying times (around 3-4 months for some), often after a vaccine appointment - check with your own doctor.
The soft spots can take up to 2 years to close, so wait until the scalp has hardened. Some traditions advise no cutting instrument until after one year, but practices vary by family.
Doing it at home with an experienced barber (referred, who's done many mundans) can be more comfortable for the child. Meanwhile, a gender-neutral bandana-style hairband keeps hair out of the eyes.
The information shared on this page comes from real experiences of mothers in our community. While we strive to provide helpful insights, this content is for informational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. Always consult with your pediatrician, healthcare provider, or other qualified medical professional for any questions regarding your child's health or development.
Last reviewed: June 17, 2026
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