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My postpartum tear/wound is healing very slowly. Is it normal if stitches aren’t used?

Some moms share that shallow tears can heal without stitches but may take months. Keeping the area clean and following your gynecologist’s advice is key, and infections should always be ruled out by a doctor.

💡Quick Answer

  • Some shallow tears can heal without stitches but may take longer
  • Keep the area clean and dry as advised by your doctor
  • Use pads/aftercare products your OB-GYN recommends
  • Track pain/discharge/swelling changes
  • Follow up if healing feels stalled beyond a few weeks

⚠️ Caution:See your doctor urgently if pain increases, you notice foul-smelling discharge, fever, increasing swelling/redness, or wound opening—these can signal infection.

🤔What Parents Worry About

Moms worry slow healing means something is seriously wrong or they did aftercare incorrectly. Many moms share it can take weeks to months, but worsening pain/discharge is the sign to get checked.

Community Answers from Moms(3)

Here's what moms in our community shared based on their own experience.

  1. 1

    One mom was told by her gynecologist that because the tear was only in the upper layers, stitches weren’t needed and it could heal on its own with antibiotics and hygiene.

  2. 2

    Another mom shared that it took about 4 months for her wound to heal completely and she was told it would heal by ‘secondary intention’ – she just had to keep the area clean and dry using pads recommended by her doctor.

  3. 3

    If your doctor suspects infection or inflammation is delaying healing, they may advise tests or treatment. Always follow up if pain, discharge, or swelling increase.

About These Answers

The information shared on this page comes from real experiences of mothers in our community. While we strive to provide helpful insights, this content is for informational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. Always consult with your pediatrician, healthcare provider, or other qualified medical professional for any questions regarding your child's health or development.

Last reviewed: January 12, 2026

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