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Many moms managed with a single helper for 10-12 hours who handled both mom-and-baby care, adding a separate nanny only if needed or after the initial 40 days.
Moms worry about getting enough help in the exhausting early days without over-arranging or overspending. The community reassures that a single dedicated helper for 10-12 hours often covers both mother and baby care, with extra help added only later if truly needed.
Here's what moms in our community shared based on their own experience.
You can keep someone who helps with your massage and the baby's massage and bathing in the first half of the day, and a separate nanny later if you still need help.
One mom kept a japa maid for only about 10 hours who cared for both her and the baby - doing morning tasks and looking after the baby the rest of the time - so no separate nanny was needed. She suggests adding a nanny once your 40 days are over.
The information shared on this page comes from real experiences of mothers in our community. While we strive to provide helpful insights, this content is for informational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. Always consult with your pediatrician, healthcare provider, or other qualified medical professional for any questions regarding your child's health or development.
Last reviewed: June 17, 2026
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