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My 13-month-old is scared of the potty and screams when we try to seat her. Is this normal?

It’s common for toddlers to feel scared of new potty seats. Many parents slow down, remove pressure, and reintroduce the potty playfully over time.

Community Answers from Moms(3)

Here's what moms in our community shared based on their own experience.

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    Some toddlers cry or resist even with fun books and songs around the potty – fear of a new seat is very common.

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    Many parents pause formal potty training, keep diapers on, and slowly reintroduce the potty as a toy or chair so the child can get used to it without pressure.

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    Potty learning can take months. It’s okay to go slow, follow the child’s cues, and try again when they seem more ready.

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The information shared on this page comes from real experiences of mothers in our community. While we strive to provide helpful insights, this content is for informational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. Always consult with your pediatrician, healthcare provider, or other qualified medical professional for any questions regarding your child's health or development.

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