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How do I burp my newborn when upright/shoulder burping isn't working?

Moms suggest trying alternative positions - especially the supported sitting burp - and reassure that it's okay if the baby doesn't always burp, as long as there's no gas or discomfort.

💡Quick Answer

  • Try the supported sitting burp with a gentle tick-tock motion
  • Tummy-down across your legs is another option
  • Support the baby's weight on your hand, not the spine
  • It's okay if baby doesn't burp every time, if there's no gas/discomfort
  • Many moms ease off active burping around 4 months
  • Hand off to someone else to burp so you can rest

⚠️ Caution:If your baby has persistent gas, colic, frequent spit-up or reflux, ask your pediatrician about positions and any colic measures suited to your baby.

🤔What Parents Worry About

New parents feel trapped in an endless cycle of feeding and burping with no rest, and worry that a baby who won't burp will be in pain or get gas. The community offers practical relief - alternative positions like the supported sitting burp that nurses use, the reassurance that not every feed ends in a burp, and the reminder that you can hand the baby off or use a carrier so you actually get a break.

Community Answers from Moms(6)

Here's what moms in our community shared based on their own experience.

  1. 1

    Hold the baby upright against your shoulder and gently pat - this is what nurses used and it worked well.

  2. 2

    Try the sitting burp position with a slight tick-tock movement (doctor-suggested for burping difficulty and gas). The baby leans slightly forward with weight supported by your hand, not on the spine. This is what hospital nurses used and it's safe.

  3. 3

    Try holding the baby tummy-down on your legs. You can lay the baby down after about 15 minutes unless they seem uncomfortable or spit up often.

  4. 4

    It's okay even if the baby doesn't burp, as long as there's no gas or colic. You can do skin-to-skin, hold the baby, or use a baby carrier so you can walk around with the baby on your chest.

  5. 5

    After feeding, hand the baby to someone else to burp and hold so you can rest.

  6. 6

    You'll know when your baby needs to burp - they make a fish-like face when they can't. Many moms stop actively burping around 4 months and only help if the baby is fussy.

About These Answers

The information shared on this page comes from real experiences of mothers in our community. While we strive to provide helpful insights, this content is for informational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. Always consult with your pediatrician, healthcare provider, or other qualified medical professional for any questions regarding your child's health or development.

Last reviewed: June 17, 2026

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